Spent real time figuring this out. Here's everything I actually learned.
Outside major cities the matching pool is smaller, which makes certain features feel broken even when they're working as intended.
Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:
- Read the platform's help center before posting — some answers are actually there
- Community forums like this one are often more current than official docs
- Contact support with a screenshot — it speeds up the response significantly
- If a feature disappeared after an update, it may have been removed intentionally
Ended up on Flurrydate after testing a few others. Less flashy but more consistent than what I was using before.
Hopefully that saves you some frustration.