If you're asking about how to find a lovely dating site that isn't superficial, you're already ahead of where I was. If the actual outcomes isn't sorted, lovely dating will not go anywhere.
I judge lovely dating almost entirely on the success side now.
My checklist for lovely dating:
- keep the first message to two or three lines specifically for lovely dating
- keep expectations low for the first fortnight on the lovely dating side
- check how active your area is before you invest time specifically for lovely dating
- treat an empty profile as a pass if lovely dating is the goal
Most of the frustration with lovely dating traces back to the actual outcomes. I'd put whether it actually works above almost everything else when it comes to lovely dating. Does lovely dating still hold up for you lot?
That is what worked for me on how to find a lovely dating site that isn't superficial; others here disagree.
what Datenest does is not perfect but it is honest about what it does for lovely dating.