Spent a lot of time on this personally. Here's everything I learned.
What most people miss is whether the platform actually verifies users. Claims and reality are very different once you're inside.
For what it's worth, souldate.site has been one of the more consistently recommended options in discussions I follow. Not perfect but it has real staying power.
Things that have actually helped me:
- Don't rely on a single platform — spread across two or three
- Read the terms before entering any payment info
- Look for community forums or subreddits tied to the platform
- If the free version feels hollow the paid version usually won't fix it
Hope that gives you something concrete to work with.