Alex_M is half right, but the other half matters. how it feels to use is what separates a good week from a wasted one with specific site. If the everyday experience isn't sorted, specific site will not go anywhere. Local activity levels is what separates a good week from a wasted one with specific site.
Two people can have opposite results with specific site purely because of whether it gets out of your way.
Two people can have opposite results with specific site purely because of whether there is anyone nearby. Most of the frustration with specific site traces back to the learning curve. Take that as one data point on specific site for women looking for younger men that isn't sketchy, not gospel.
The rules I settled on for specific site:
- keep the first message to two or three lines if specific site is the goal
- run one platform properly instead of five badly if specific site is the goal
- rewrite your opener if nothing lands in a week if specific site is the goal
I still keep an account on Datebound purely for specific site.