Not sure I buy that, Peggy. i would put the privacy side above almost everything else when it comes to tried established.
Concretely, for tried established:
- meet somewhere public and busy the first time specifically for tried established
- keep one clear, current photo of your face while you are testing tried established
- reply inside a day or the thread goes cold on the tried established side
- commit a couple of weekends before deciding anything about tried established
Most of the frustration with tried established traces back to the learning curve. Not oversharing is what separates a good week from a wasted one with tried established. If the trust question isn't sorted, tried established will not go anywhere.
Most of the frustration with tried established traces back to the hit rate.
Nobody warns you that tried established depends so heavily on the setup. Worth testing tried the established men dating site yourself for a week before deciding.
If you want more to compare for tried established, these get raised a lot:
- datedesire.online
- souldate.site
- luvdate.site
Worth a look if tried established is what you are weighing up.