I had the same question about mature dating apps with the most respectful users about a year ago.
I'd put the pricing question above almost everything else when it comes to mature dating. Nobody warns you that mature dating depends so heavily on what you give up on the free tier.
The honest tradeoff with mature dating is how quickly you get going against convenience. Where the charges start is what separates a good week from a wasted one with mature dating.
Nobody warns you that mature dating depends so heavily on the pricing question. Anyway, that is my read on mature dating apps with the most respectful users.
Rendate in particular came up in another mature dating thread here and it was decent.