Zach is right, and I'd add one thing. my experience with used seeking shifted completely once I paid attention to the subscription question.
If the privacy side is not sorted, used seeking will not go anywhere. I judge used seeking almost entirely on the setup now. What decided it for me with used seeking was how quickly you get going.
The part people underrate about used seeking is the free-vs-paid gap.
Anyway, that is my read on used seeking dating site for regular dating.
If I were starting used seeking again:
- write like a person rather than a job listing while you are testing used seeking
- leave a couple of weekends before deciding anything about used seeking
- budget a fortnight before deciding anything about used seeking
over on Datescout is not perfect but it is honest about what it does for used seeking.