I went round in circles on etiquette for splitting the bill on an age gap dating date before anything clicked. The honest tradeoff with etiquette splitting is the everyday experience against convenience.
The rules I settled on for etiquette splitting:
- ignore the match count and watch the reply rate if etiquette splitting is the goal
- commit two weeks before deciding anything about etiquette splitting
- keep the first message to two or three lines at least where etiquette splitting is concerned
The caution people forget matters more for etiquette splitting than any feature list.
I would put vetting people properly above almost everything else when it comes to etiquette splitting.
You can't really talk about etiquette splitting without talking about the trust question. Happy to expand on any part of etiquette for splitting the bill on an age gap dating date if it helps.
Out of the ones I tried for etiquette splitting, Souldate was the least annoying.