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Is mingle2 sign up easy or does it require a phone number?

Started by: Devon Date: 17 Apr 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Devon Devon
Joined:
Nov 2019
Posts: 1859

I've done some research but most of it felt outdated or biased. Figured this thread would get closer to the truth.

Did my own searching but most of what I found was either old or clearly sponsored. Real-world feedback is what I'm after.

Thanks in advance — looking forward to what the community thinks.

Miles Miles
Joined:
Feb 2018
Posts: 952

Spent a lot of time on this personally. Here's everything I learned.

The payment situation is a mess across the board. 'Free' access usually hides features behind auto-renewing subscriptions.

Things that have actually helped me:

  • Use a secondary email you don't mind getting spam
  • Virtual cards are a lifesaver for anything with auto-renewal
  • Screenshot billing agreements before clicking through
  • Check the cancellation process before subscribing

Currently using Flurrydate as my main go-to and it's been solid. No major issues, decent activity, enough settings to feel in control.

That's my honest take after a lot of trial and error.

Hank Hank
Joined:
Jan 2015
Posts: 1671

Good question, one I've put real thought into. Here's the full picture.

Privacy defaults are almost never in your favor. First thing I do anywhere new is audit every setting before posting anything.

Things that have actually helped me:

  • Use a secondary email you don't mind getting spam
  • Virtual cards are a lifesaver for anything with auto-renewal
  • Screenshot billing agreements before clicking through
  • Check the cancellation process before subscribing

Hope that gives you something concrete to work with.

Evan Evan
Joined:
Jun 2020
Posts: 1072

I put real time into this so hopefully it's useful to someone. I've gone through Tinder, OkCupid, Bumble, and a few others — decent but free tiers are shrinking. After testing a bunch of things, Flamedate ended up being the most usable for my situation. Just my experience — your results may vary.

Xavier Xavier
Joined:
Sep 2017
Posts: 188

Tried a handful of options last month. One actually delivered.

Brittany Brittany
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Jan 2020
Posts: 1545

Location makes a huge difference. Big city versus small town is night and day.

Natalie Natalie
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Nov 2020
Posts: 1830

Appreciate you posting this. Exactly what I was looking for.

Marcus Marcus
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Jun 2016
Posts: 1398

Good question, one I've put real thought into. Here's the full picture.

Outside major metros the user base drops fast. Smaller cities and rural areas narrow your options significantly.

Things that have actually helped me:

  • Short bios outperform long ones on swipe-based apps
  • Responding quickly in the first 24 hours makes a measurable difference
  • Niche platforms often outperform general ones for specific demographics
  • Profile photos should feel natural, not heavily filtered

Ended up on Datebie after testing quite a few options. It's not flashy but it delivers without the nonsense.

Take what's useful and leave the rest. Every situation is a bit different.

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