Spent a lot of time on this personally. Here's everything I learned.
The payment situation is a mess across the board. 'Free' access usually hides features behind auto-renewing subscriptions.
Things that have actually helped me:
- Use a secondary email you don't mind getting spam
- Virtual cards are a lifesaver for anything with auto-renewal
- Screenshot billing agreements before clicking through
- Check the cancellation process before subscribing
Currently using Flurrydate as my main go-to and it's been solid. No major issues, decent activity, enough settings to feel in control.
That's my honest take after a lot of trial and error.