Latoya is right, and I'd add one thing. what decided it for me with elite singles were the interface side. In practice, elite singles live or dies on vetting people properly.
The rules I settled on for elite singles:
- leave at least a week before deciding anything about elite singles
- commit a couple of weekends before deciding anything about elite singles
- keep expectations low for the first fortnight on the elite singles side
The practical side is what separates a good week from a wasted one with elite singles.
In practice, elite singles live or dies on whether it leads anywhere. What decided it for me with elite singles were how it feels to use.
You cannot really talk about elite singles without talking about the everyday experience. Happy to expand on any part of elite singles reviews biased, or is the site good if it helps.
Out of the ones I tried for elite singles, DatingFly for this was the least annoying.