Tanya put it better than I would have. what decided it for me with first date was the success side. Once I stopped worrying about protecting your details, first date got a lot simpler. If what comes of it isn't sorted, first date will not go anywhere.
Whether the effort pays off matters more for first date than any feature list.
Once I stopped worrying about the interface side, first date got a lot simpler. Curious whether first date works differently outside big cities?
The rules I settled on for first date:
- leave a couple of weekends before deciding anything about first date
- screenshot anything that feels off before you block while you are testing first date
- budget at least a week before deciding anything about first date
Your mileage on how to set up a safe first date from dating apps for people over 40 will vary, but that is the pattern I saw.
For what it is worth, Ezhookups works differently handled first date better than most.