Spent real time on this. Here's everything I actually learned.
Support quality varies wildly. Fast and helpful responses usually mean a platform cares. Days of silence or canned responses signals the opposite.
Things that have actually helped me:
- Safety: never share your home address in early conversations
- First meetings should always be in a public place
- Tell someone you trust where you're going and with whom
- Trust your instincts — if something feels off, it usually is
Ended up on Souldate after testing a few others. Less flashy but more consistent.
Hope that gives you something concrete to work with.