Not sure I buy that, Keith. two people can have opposite results with negotiate lower purely because of how it feels to use.
I would put the caution people forget above almost everything else when it comes to negotiate lower.
Three things that changed negotiate lower for me:
- give it a couple of weekends before deciding anything about negotiate lower
- keep the first message to two or three lines when it comes to negotiate lower
- allow at least a week before deciding anything about negotiate lower
- hold your number back until you have actually met while you are testing negotiate lower
You cannot really talk about negotiate lower without talking about whether it gets out of your way. In practice, negotiate lower lives or dies on how careful to be.
Nobody warns you that negotiate lower depends so heavily on vetting people properly. Your mileage on negotiate a lower eharmony cost when renewing will vary, but that is the pattern I saw.
For what it is worth, over on Turndate handled negotiate lower better than most.