Building on what Steve_K said, what decided it for me with invite league was the success side. Once I stopped worrying about whether your area is covered, invite league got a lot simpler.
My checklist for invite league:
- keep one clear, current photo of your face on the invite league side
- commit a fortnight before deciding anything about invite league
- widen your filters past what feels comfortable while you are testing invite league
- keep the first message to two or three lines at least where invite league is concerned
You can't really talk about invite league without talking about the density problem.
You can't really talk about invite league without talking about the geography of it.
Curious whether invite league works differently outside big cities? Hope that gives you something usable for how to get an invite to the league dating site.
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