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What is the blk dating website policy on fake profiles?

Started by: Sara_M Date: 24 Dec 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Sara_M Sara_M
Joined:
Jan 2013
Posts: 1038

Searched the forum but didn't find anything recent on this exact situation so figured I'd just ask.

Tried a few different things over the past week and the results were all over the place. Some approaches helped, others made it worse. Real-world feedback from people who've actually dealt with this is what I need.

Drop your experience below, even a quick tip is useful at this point.

Patrick Patrick
Joined:
Jan 2015
Posts: 2444

Spent real time figuring this out. Here's everything I actually learned.

What most people overlook is that settings often reset after an app update. Always double-check your preferences after any major version change.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Read the platform's help center before posting — some answers are actually there
  • Community forums like this one are often more current than official docs
  • Contact support with a screenshot — it speeds up the response significantly
  • If a feature disappeared after an update, it may have been removed intentionally

The one that worked best for my situation was Datedesire. Worth trying before committing to anything that costs money.

Happy to expand on any part of this.

Liam Liam
Joined:
Feb 2019
Posts: 387

This one trips people up constantly. Here's my complete breakdown.

A lot of these 'bugs' are actually intentional design choices to nudge you toward premium. Knowing that changes how you troubleshoot.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Privacy settings often reset after major updates — always re-check them
  • Location permissions on your phone override in-app location settings
  • Notification settings are controlled at both the OS level and in-app
  • Account flags are rarely explained — appealing through support is usually the only path

That's my honest take after a fair amount of trial and error.

Hank Hank
Joined:
Feb 2013
Posts: 2331

This one trips people up constantly. Here's my complete breakdown.

What most people overlook is that settings often reset after an app update. Always double-check your preferences after any major version change.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Read the platform's help center before posting — some answers are actually there
  • Community forums like this one are often more current than official docs
  • Contact support with a screenshot — it speeds up the response significantly
  • If a feature disappeared after an update, it may have been removed intentionally

Ended up on Souldate after testing a few others. Less flashy but more consistent than what I was using before.

Hopefully that saves you some frustration.

Wayne Wayne
Joined:
Apr 2018
Posts: 908

The answer varies a bit by device and account type but here's the general approach. Just my experience — your setup may vary.

Leah Leah
Joined:
Nov 2018
Posts: 709

Good question and one that comes up a lot. Here's the full picture.

Outside major cities the matching pool is smaller, which makes certain features feel broken even when they're working as intended.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Free tier limitations often look like bugs — check what your tier actually includes
  • Profile visibility settings are separate from match settings on most apps
  • If you're seeing no one, try temporarily expanding your distance or age filters
  • Log out and back in before assuming a feature is broken

Ended up on Flamedate after testing a few others. Less flashy but more consistent than what I was using before.

Hope that gives you something concrete to work with.

Riley Riley
Joined:
Nov 2014
Posts: 565

Going long here because the quick answer really doesn't cover it.

The support documentation on most dating apps is genuinely poor. Community threads like this one are usually more current and accurate.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Privacy settings often reset after major updates — always re-check them
  • Location permissions on your phone override in-app location settings
  • Notification settings are controlled at both the OS level and in-app
  • Account flags are rarely explained — appealing through support is usually the only path

Take what's useful and leave the rest.

Logan Logan
Joined:
Feb 2021
Posts: 1173

I've been through this rabbit hole so let me give you a thorough answer.

Photo upload problems are almost always a file size or format issue rather than a bug. JPEG under 5MB tends to work everywhere.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Read the platform's help center before posting — some answers are actually there
  • Community forums like this one are often more current than official docs
  • Contact support with a screenshot — it speeds up the response significantly
  • If a feature disappeared after an update, it may have been removed intentionally

Currently using Souldate as my main go-to and it's been reliable. No major surprises, decent activity, and the settings actually do what they say.

That's my honest take after a fair amount of trial and error.

Chuck Chuck
Joined:
Feb 2014
Posts: 510

Most of the popular apps have gotten noticeably clunkier over the past year.

Aaron Aaron
Joined:
Feb 2020
Posts: 839

Let me share what I learned from going through this myself. Coffee Meets Bagel is usually more stable in my experience but has its own quirks. After testing a few options Datenest ended up being more straightforward for my situation. Just my experience — your setup may vary.

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