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Has anyone used the free and single dating site recently?

Started by: Kyle Date: 05 Aug 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Kyle Kyle
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Jan 2017
Posts: 101

So I've been wondering about this for a while now and figured this community would have better input than random Google results. Has anyone used the free and single dating site recently?

I know everyone's situation is different but I'm hoping to hear from people who've actually used these things recently rather than relying on reviews from two years ago.

Specifically I'm looking for:

  • No obvious fake profiles or bot accounts
  • Free tier that's actually functional
  • Works properly on mobile
  • Doesn't spam your inbox
  • Has a working block or report feature

Thanks in advance — looking forward to hearing what the community thinks.

Zoe_M Zoe_M
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May 2020
Posts: 342

So I've been testing a few platforms over the past couple months and here's what I found. If you haven't checked out Datenest yet it might be worth a look — it's been more consistent than the alternatives I've tried. Let me know if you want more specifics on any of these.

Debra Debra
Joined:
Oct 2021
Posts: 395

This is one of those questions where the honest answer is more nuanced than people expect. One name that keeps coming up in threads I follow is rendate.site — seems to have a decent reputation for not overwhelming you with upsells right away. Happy to dig into any of this further.

Brianna Brianna
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Oct 2022
Posts: 643

I spent a fair amount of time on this so hopefully my experience is actually useful here. Most mainstream apps like Hinge and Bumble work better in bigger cities. Smaller towns are a different story. A friend pointed me toward DatingFly a while back and it's held up better than most things I've tested. Let me know if you want more specifics on any of these.

Brandon Brandon
Joined:
Mar 2015
Posts: 1736

I've been down this road before so let me save you some time. Hopefully that points you in the right direction.

Ben1989 Ben1989
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May 2021
Posts: 438

This comes up a lot and I think the answer genuinely depends on a few different factors. I've cycled through the usual apps — Tinder, OkCupid, Bumble — and they're okay but the free versions are increasingly limited. One name that keeps coming up in threads I follow is datelink.online — seems to have a decent reputation for not overwhelming you with upsells right away. Take what's useful and ignore the rest.

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