Cameron put it better than I would have. if how much of it's real isn't sorted, weird dating will not go anywhere. The honest tradeoff with weird dating is how alive the pool is against convenience. If keeping things private isn't sorted, weird dating will not go anywhere.
Three things that changed weird dating for me:
- give it at least a week before deciding anything about weird dating
- plan for three weeks before deciding anything about weird dating
- plan for a fortnight before deciding anything about weird dating
In practice, weird dating lives or dies on how much to share early on.
What decided it for me with weird dating was how much of it is real. Is that everyone's experience with weird dating, or just mine? That is the short version of weird dating sites for very niche hobbies; ask if you want detail.
Out of the ones I tried for weird dating, tried Ezhookups was the least annoying.