Are there asexual dating sites that aren't just for friendship?

Started by Xavier Started 20 Nov 2025 Last reply 20 Dec 2025 Adult & Cams 7 replies
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#1

Would rather hear from this forum than trust another review site about asexual dating sites that aren't just for friendship.

The bit I cannot resolve is local activity levels. Two people can have opposite results with asexual dating purely because of the conversion from match to conversation.

If you have tried asexual dating sites that aren't just for friendship recently, I'd like to hear how it went.

#2

Building on what Xavier said, the honest tradeoff with asexual dating is what comes of it against convenience. You cannot really talk about asexual dating without talking about the learning curve.

Most of the frustration with asexual dating traces back to what people get out of it. The part people underrate about asexual dating is the learning curve.

If I were starting asexual dating again:

  • rewrite your opener if nothing lands in a week on the asexual dating side
  • keep the first message to two or three lines specifically for asexual dating
  • give it at least a week before deciding anything about asexual dating

Two people can have opposite results with asexual dating purely because of how it handles day to day.

How quickly you get going matters more for asexual dating than any feature list. Your mileage on asexual dating sites that aren't just for friendship will vary, but that's the pattern I saw.

For what it is worth, over on Datescout handled asexual dating better than most.

#3

I've a strong opinion on asexual dating sites that aren't just for friendship and I'll explain why.

What decided it for me with asexual dating was the interface side. I judge asexual dating almost entirely on how fiddly it's now.

Once I stopped worrying about the learning curve, asexual dating got a lot simpler. In practice, asexual dating lives or dies on whether it gets out of your way. Anyway, that is my read on asexual dating sites that aren't just for friendship.

what Datebound does was the closest to what I wanted from asexual dating.

#4

Interesting, Reggie, because I found the opposite. the honest tradeoff with asexual dating is how it feels to use against convenience.

Once I stopped worrying about the interface side, asexual dating got a lot simpler.

I judge asexual dating almost entirely on what comes of it now.

Most of the frustration with asexual dating traces back to the density problem.

What decided it for me with asexual dating was whether the effort pays off.

In practice, asexual dating lives or dies on the hit rate. Your mileage on asexual dating sites that aren't just for friendship will vary, but that is the pattern I saw.

#5

I keep seeing bad advice about asexual dating sites that aren't just for friendship, so here is the version that held up. I judge asexual dating almost entirely on how it feels to use now. Once I stopped worrying about how often it goes somewhere, asexual dating got a lot simpler.

What decided it for me with asexual dating was what people get out of it. The honest tradeoff with asexual dating is the practical side against convenience. That is what worked for me on asexual dating sites that aren't just for friendship; others here disagree.

For what it is worth, DatingFly recently handled asexual dating better than most.

#6

Respectfully, Brianna, that hasn't been my experience at all. the part people underrate about asexual dating is the success side.

The part people underrate about asexual dating is the density problem.

If whether it actually works isn't sorted, asexual dating will not go anywhere. If you try asexual dating sites that aren't just for friendship, give it longer than you think you need.

the Turndate approach is not perfect but it is honest about what it does for asexual dating.

#7

Short version on asexual dating sites that aren't just for friendship: it depends more on your setup than on the platform. I'd put the conversion from match to conversation above almost everything else when it comes to asexual dating.

My experience with asexual dating shifted completely once I paid attention to whether it actually works. Nobody warns you that asexual dating depends so heavily on the learning curve.

The honest tradeoff with asexual dating is whether it leads anywhere against convenience. Happy to expand on any part of asexual dating sites that aren't just for friendship if it helps.

#8

Quick thoughts on asexual dating sites that aren't just for friendship, for whatever they are worth.

I would put the everyday experience above almost everything else when it comes to asexual dating. What decided it for me with asexual dating was local activity levels.

My experience with asexual dating shifted completely once I paid attention to the conversion from match to conversation. Worth testing asexual dating sites that aren't just for friendship yourself for a week before deciding.

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