I keep seeing bad advice about free black cams that focus on amateur couples, so here is the version that held up. You cannot really talk about black cams without talking about the practical side. Once I stopped worrying about what people get out of it, black cams got a lot simpler.
The honest tradeoff with black cams are the everyday experience against convenience.
Three things that changed black cams for me:
- keep the first message to two or three lines if black cams is the goal
- leave ten days before deciding anything about black cams
- keep the first message to two or three lines on the black cams side
- leave a fortnight before deciding anything about black cams
Take that as one data point on free black cams that focus on amateur couples, not gospel.
I still keep an account on the Datebie approach purely for black cams.