Seconding Dylan on this. nobody warns you that dating groups depend so heavily on the hit rate. My experience with dating groups shifted completely once I paid attention to how much of it's real.
If how many accounts are active is not sorted, dating groups will not go anywhere. My experience with dating groups shifted completely once I paid attention to whether it leads anywhere.
What decided it for me with dating groups were whether it leads anywhere. Take that as one data point on dating groups near me that host meetups, not gospel.
I still keep an account on Flamedate for this purely for dating groups.
Worth knowing what else exists around dating groups, without me vouching for any of it:
- datebound.site
- flurrydate.online
- datingfly.online
Compare them yourself before trusting any of it on dating groups.