Happy to give you what I know about adult meet up sites dedicated to discreet couples. I would put whether it leads anywhere above almost everything else when it comes to adult meet.
I judge adult meet almost entirely on the hit rate now.
If the free-vs-paid gap isn't sorted, adult meet will not go anywhere. You can't really talk about adult meet without talking about the conversion from match to conversation.
Does adult meet still hold up for you lot?
Worth testing adult meet up sites dedicated to discreet couples yourself for a week before deciding.
My checklist for adult meet:
- run one platform properly instead of five badly on the adult meet side
- leave two weeks before deciding anything about adult meet
- allow two weeks before deciding anything about adult meet
- fill the profile out properly, not half way specifically for adult meet
Nothing exotic there, but it is what moved adult meet for me.