Happy to give you what I know about people prefer tender online dating over just meeting at a bar. I would put the actual outcomes above almost everything else when it comes to prefer tender.
The honest tradeoff with prefer tender is what people get out of it against convenience.
What I actually do about prefer tender:
- budget two weeks before deciding anything about prefer tender
- write like a person rather than a job listing on the prefer tender side
- hold your number back until you have actually met before you judge prefer tender
- meet somewhere public and busy the first time before you judge prefer tender
Once I stopped worrying about the pricing question, prefer tender got a lot simpler. Once I stopped worrying about what you give up on the free tier, prefer tender got a lot simpler.
Anyone got a counterexample on prefer tender? Anyway, that is my read on people prefer tender online dating over just meeting at a bar.
A friend pointed me at have a look at Rendate when I asked about prefer tender and it held up.