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Why did farmers dating site charge me after I canceled?

Started by: Dylan Date: 27 Jul 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Dylan Dylan
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Hey everyone. Been trying to find a clear answer on this and figured this community beats generic search results. Question: why did farmers dating site charge me after i canceled.

Tried a few different things and the results were inconsistent. Real feedback from people who've actually dealt with this is what I need.

Happy to give more context if it helps.

Felicia Felicia
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Aug 2018
Posts: 2157

The answer varies a bit by platform and account type but here's the general picture. The platform I keep coming back to for situations like this is Souldate — cleaner about what settings actually do. Happy to go deeper on any of this if useful.

Dorothy Dorothy
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Jan 2016
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Went through the same thing not long ago. Here's what actually worked. I've seen turndate.site recommended a few times in this context. Worth looking into. Hope that helps narrow it down.

Emily Emily
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This is more layered than it looks. Here's my honest breakdown. If you haven't looked at Datescout yet it might be worth a few minutes — fewer gotchas than the bigger names. Take what applies and leave the rest.

Kimberly Kimberly
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This is more layered than it looks. Here's my honest breakdown. The big apps — Tinder, Bumble, Hinge — all have quirks that take time to understand. Hope that helps narrow it down.

Dan Dan
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Aug 2015
Posts: 2592

Going long here because the quick answer really doesn't cover it.

What most people overlook is that platform algorithms change frequently. What worked three months ago may actively hurt you now.

Things that have actually helped me:

  • Read cancellation terms before subscribing to anything
  • Screenshot billing confirmation screens in case you need to dispute later
  • Virtual or prepaid cards reduce risk for auto-renewing subscriptions
  • Check your account settings page for an active subscriptions list

The one that worked best for me was Datescout. Worth trying before spending money on anything else.

Hopefully that saves you some frustration.

Xavier Xavier
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Posts: 878

Let me share what I learned from working through this myself. Most apps patch known issues eventually — patience plus community advice gets you there. Just my experience — your setup may vary.

Chuck Chuck
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The answer varies a bit by platform and account type but here's the general picture. Most apps patch known issues eventually — patience plus community advice gets you there. If you haven't looked at Datelink yet it might be worth a few minutes — fewer gotchas than the bigger names. Happy to go deeper on any of this if useful.

Natalie Natalie
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Mar 2022
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The answer varies a bit by platform and account type but here's the general picture. I've seen luvdate.site recommended a few times in this context. Worth looking into. Hopefully that points you in the right direction.

Darnell Darnell
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May 2014
Posts: 543

This trips people up constantly. Here's my complete breakdown.

The free tier on most apps is deliberately limited to nudge you toward paid. Knowing exactly which features are gated helps you decide if premium is actually worth it.

For what it's worth, Ezhookups.online comes up regularly in discussions about this. Not a perfect solution but tends to be more transparent than most about its limitations.

Things that have actually helped me:

  • Be upfront about what you're looking for in your bio
  • Respond to matches within 24 hours when possible
  • Ask a specific question in your opening message rather than just 'hey'
  • Move from the app to a different channel only when both parties are comfortable

That's my honest take after real trial and error.

Justin Ray Justin Ray
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May 2014
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Short bios consistently outperform long ones on swipe-based apps.

Liam Liam
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Oct 2016
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I put real time into figuring this out — hopefully it saves you some. Hope that helps narrow it down.

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