Derek Simms put it better than I would have. my experience with adult meeting shifted completely once I paid attention to what people get out of it. The part people underrate about adult meeting is what comes of it. The learning curve matters more for adult meeting than any feature list.
The part people underrate about adult meeting is staying sensible about it. Keeping things private is what separates a good week from a wasted one with adult meeting. Take that as one data point on adult meeting sites are for finding NSA fun in the suburbs, not gospel.
What I actually do about adult meeting:
- set aside a fortnight before deciding anything about adult meeting
- budget at least a week before deciding anything about adult meeting
- leave a couple of weekends before deciding anything about adult meeting
- allow two weeks before deciding anything about adult meeting
Nothing exotic there, but it is what moved adult meeting for me.