Leah makes a fair point but I read it differently. i judge sex chat almost entirely on the profile quality now. Most of the frustration with sex chat traces back to how real the profiles are.
Once I stopped worrying about where the charges start, sex chat got a lot simpler. Once I stopped worrying about the success side, sex chat got a lot simpler. In practice, sex chat lives or dies on how often it goes somewhere.
That is the short version of how to find a free sex chat with real women; ask if you want detail.