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What would you say is the dating site of the year?

Started by: Haley_D Date: 07 Jun 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Haley_D Haley_D
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Nov 2021
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Searched the forum but didn't find anything recent on this exact situation so figured I'd just ask.

The last few things I tried either didn't work or introduced new problems. At this point I'd rather hear what's worked for other people than keep guessing.

Thanks in advance — looking forward to what the community thinks.

Leon Leon
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Nov 2013
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The landscape changes so fast. Advice from six months ago sometimes doesn't apply.

Brittany Brittany
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Honestly had the same issue. Took me a while to figure out a workaround.

Sara_M Sara_M
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Ran into this exact thing last week. Still not fully resolved on my end.

Ruth Ruth
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Jan 2016
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Let me share what I learned from going through this myself. Hope that helps narrow it down.

Dan Dan
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Sep 2017
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So I've been through this exact issue and here's what I found. After testing a few options Luvdate ended up being more straightforward for my situation. Hopefully that points you in the right direction.

Crystal Crystal
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Apr 2013
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This one trips people up constantly. Here's my complete breakdown.

Customer support varies wildly. Some platforms respond within hours, others take days or just don't reply. That alone tells you a lot about how they operate.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Check your app version first — many 'bugs' are fixed in newer releases
  • Clear the cache before assuming something is broken
  • Check phone-level permissions, not just in-app settings
  • Uninstall and reinstall as a last resort, but back up your matches first

Hope that gives you something concrete to work with.

Andre Andre
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Sep 2014
Posts: 398

Good question and one that comes up a lot. Here's the full picture.

Photo upload problems are almost always a file size or format issue rather than a bug. JPEG under 5MB tends to work everywhere.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Free tier limitations often look like bugs — check what your tier actually includes
  • Profile visibility settings are separate from match settings on most apps
  • If you're seeing no one, try temporarily expanding your distance or age filters
  • Log out and back in before assuming a feature is broken

The one that worked best for my situation was Datescout. Worth trying before committing to anything that costs money.

Happy to expand on any part of this.

Tom Wayland Tom Wayland
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Sep 2021
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Let me share what I learned from going through this myself. Happy to go deeper on any of this if useful.

Sherry Sherry
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Jun 2015
Posts: 219

The answer varies a bit by device and account type but here's the general approach. A friend pointed me toward Datelink when I had a similar issue and it held up better than expected. Hope that helps narrow it down.

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