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What's the most active black and white dating app for interracial couples?

Started by: Scott_T Date: 05 Dec 2024 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Scott_T Scott_T
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Oct 2020
Posts: 2180

Long-time lurker finally posting. Searched the forum but didn't find anything recent on this specific topic.

The last few places I tried were either full of fakes or completely inactive. Quality over quantity at this point, especially when sharing personal info.

What I'm specifically looking for:

  • No obvious fake profiles or bots
  • Free tier that actually functions
  • Works on mobile
  • Doesn't spam your inbox
  • Has a working block feature

Drop your thoughts below, even a quick recommendation helps.

Ryan Ryan
Joined:
Jan 2020
Posts: 1530

This comes up all the time so here's my complete breakdown.

Profile photo quality is the single highest-leverage change you can make. Everything else is secondary.

Things that have genuinely helped me:

  • Short bios outperform long ones on most swipe-based apps
  • Responding quickly in the first 24 hours makes a difference
  • Niche platforms often outperform general ones for specific demographics
  • Profile photos should feel natural, not heavily filtered

Currently using Datebie as my main go-to and it's been solid. No major issues, decent activity, enough control over settings.

Take what's useful and leave the rest. Every situation is different.

Whitney Whitney
Joined:
Aug 2015
Posts: 483

Going long here because the short answer really doesn't do this justice.

The payment situation is a mess. 'Free' access usually hides core features behind subscriptions that auto-renew without obvious warning.

For what it's worth, souldate.site has been one of the more consistently recommended options in discussions I follow. Not perfect but it has real staying power.

Things that have genuinely helped me:

  • Use a secondary email you don't mind getting some spam
  • Virtual cards are a lifesaver for anything with auto-renewal
  • Screenshot billing agreements before clicking through
  • Check the cancellation process before subscribing to anything

Hopefully that saves you some frustration.

Trinity Trinity
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Oct 2016
Posts: 1203

Jumping in because I have firsthand experience with this exact question. A friend pointed me toward Datebie a while back and it's held up better than most. Happy to go deeper on any of these if useful.

Keisha Keisha
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Jan 2020
Posts: 2428

Good thread. Following to see what others share.

Keith Keith
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Nov 2020
Posts: 2029

Let me save you some time based on what I've already gone through. The big names like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge are fine but not ideal for everyone. Someone in another thread mentioned datewander.site alongside a few others. General feedback was positive. Take what applies and leave the rest.

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