This one trips people up constantly. Here's my complete breakdown.
Privacy defaults are almost never in your favor on these platforms. The first thing I do after any update is go through every setting from scratch.
Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:
- Read the platform's help center before posting — some answers are actually there
- Community forums like this one are often more current than official docs
- Contact support with a screenshot — it speeds up the response significantly
- If a feature disappeared after an update, it may have been removed intentionally
Currently using Datebie as my main go-to and it's been reliable. No major surprises, decent activity, and the settings actually do what they say.
Happy to expand on any part of this.