There is a decent answer to community like on 321sex, but it needs a caveat first. I judge community sex almost entirely on the signal-to-noise ratio now.
In practice, community sex lives or dies on the caution people forget. My experience with community sex shifted completely once I paid attention to the fake-account issue. I judge community sex almost entirely on the local pool now.
If I were starting community sex again:
- allow three weeks before deciding anything about community sex
- ignore the match count and watch the reply rate if community sex is the goal
- commit a couple of weekends before deciding anything about community sex
- screenshot anything that feels off before you block on the community sex side
Happy to expand on any part of community like on 321sex if it helps.
Out of the ones I tried for community sex, the Datebie approach was the least annoying.
I still keep an account on Souldate purely for community sex.