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What is the cheapest dating app that is actually good?

Started by: Sherry Date: 20 Apr 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Sherry Sherry
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Jun 2013
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I've done some digging but most of what I found felt outdated. Looking for firsthand experience.

I know everyone's setup is a little different but I'd rather hear from people with recent experience than rely on answers from two years ago.

Appreciate any honest feedback — even brief answers are helpful.

Melissa Melissa
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Jun 2023
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Good question and one that comes up a lot. Here's the full picture.

Photo upload problems are almost always a file size or format issue rather than a bug. JPEG under 5MB tends to work everywhere.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Read the platform's help center before posting — some answers are actually there
  • Community forums like this one are often more current than official docs
  • Contact support with a screenshot — it speeds up the response significantly
  • If a feature disappeared after an update, it may have been removed intentionally

Currently using Datebound as my main go-to and it's been reliable. No major surprises, decent activity, and the settings actually do what they say.

That's my honest take after a fair amount of trial and error.

Madison Reed Madison Reed
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Jun 2017
Posts: 1891

Good question and one that comes up a lot. Here's the full picture.

Battery and performance issues are usually tied to background refresh settings, not the app itself. Worth checking your phone-level permissions first.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Safety: never share your phone number in the first few messages
  • Use a secondary email for any platform you're not sure about
  • Reverse image search profile photos if something feels off
  • Report first, block second — the report creates a record on the platform

Hope that gives you something concrete to work with.

Brianna Brianna
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First thing I always check is whether the app actually updated properly.

Latoya Latoya
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Jan 2019
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Let me share what I learned from going through this myself. Hopefully that points you in the right direction.

Nate Nate
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Jun 2014
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Went through the same thing not long ago. Here's what actually worked. The platform I keep coming back to for this is Luvdate — cleaner about what settings actually do. Take what applies and leave the rest.

Andre Andre
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Jan 2013
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Depends a lot on your use case and what you're actually trying to accomplish.

Darnell Darnell
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I've been through this rabbit hole so let me give you a thorough answer.

Customer support varies wildly. Some platforms respond within hours, others take days or just don't reply. That alone tells you a lot about how they operate.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Check your app version first — many 'bugs' are fixed in newer releases
  • Clear the cache before assuming something is broken
  • Check phone-level permissions, not just in-app settings
  • Uninstall and reinstall as a last resort, but back up your matches first

Currently using Datedesire as my main go-to and it's been reliable. No major surprises, decent activity, and the settings actually do what they say.

Hopefully that saves you some frustration.

Sharon Sharon
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Sep 2019
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Based on my experience there are a few approaches worth trying. Facebook Dating actually handles some of these settings more clearly than the dedicated apps. Take what applies and leave the rest.

Carla Carla
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Jan 2021
Posts: 788

The answer varies a bit by device and account type but here's the general approach. Hinge tends to handle this better than most but it's not perfect either. Currently Souldate is what I'd recommend to someone dealing with this specific situation. Happy to go deeper on any of this if useful.

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