Dustin put it better than I would have. once I stopped worrying about protecting your details, serious dating got a lot simpler. What decided it for me with serious dating was the caution people forget.
I would put the actual outcomes above almost everything else when it comes to serious dating.
The honest tradeoff with serious dating is protecting your details against convenience.
My experience with serious dating shifted completely once I paid attention to whether it leads anywhere.
You cannot really talk about serious dating without talking about vetting people properly.
If I were starting serious dating again:
- ignore the match count and watch the reply rate while you are testing serious dating
- set aside ten days before deciding anything about serious dating
- commit at least a week before deciding anything about serious dating
Anyway, that is my read on best serious dating apps for people over 30.