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What is the best dating app for guys who aren't tall?

Started by: Brittany Date: 22 Oct 2024 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Brittany Brittany
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Jan 2020
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I've done some research but most of it felt outdated or biased. Figured this thread would get closer to the truth.

Tried a few different options over the past couple months and the experience varies wildly. Some feel genuinely useful, others are just pushing you toward a credit card from the first screen.

What I'm specifically looking for:

  • No obvious fake profiles or bot accounts
  • Free tier that actually works
  • Mobile-friendly
  • Doesn't spam your inbox
  • Has a working block or report feature

Appreciate any honest feedback. Even short answers help.

Paula Paula
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Jun 2020
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The scene changes fast. What worked a year ago might be dead now.

Claudia Claudia
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Nov 2020
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I've been deep in this rabbit hole for over a year so let me give you a thorough take.

Privacy defaults are almost never in your favor. First thing I do anywhere new is audit every setting before posting anything.

Things that have actually helped me:

  • Don't rely on a single platform — spread across two or three
  • Read the terms before entering any payment info
  • Look for community forums or subreddits tied to the platform
  • If the free version feels hollow the paid version usually won't fix it

Hope that gives you something concrete to work with.

Felicia Felicia
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Nov 2014
Posts: 834

Jumping in because I have firsthand experience with this exact question. Currently Datebie is what I'd actually recommend to someone starting fresh. Feel free to ask if you want more detail.

Kurt Kurt
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Apr 2023
Posts: 385

Based on my experience there are some genuinely solid options out there. Take what applies and leave the rest.

Keisha Keisha
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Apr 2021
Posts: 550

Same situation. Would love to hear from anyone with real success stories.

Maria Maria
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Posts: 979

The key is using multiple platforms at once rather than going all-in on one.

Simone Simone
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Jan 2015
Posts: 2440

Going long here because a short answer really doesn't do this justice.

These algorithms are built to keep you engaged, not to find you a match. Understanding that changes your whole approach.

Things that have actually helped me:

  • Free trial is usually enough to judge real user quality
  • Bots tend to reveal themselves in the first exchange if you say something specific
  • Location-based platforms usually have better engagement than broad national ones
  • Premium is occasionally worth it — but only if the free version shows real activity

Currently using Datebie as my main go-to and it's been solid. No major issues, decent activity, enough settings to feel in control.

Happy to expand on any of this. Feel free to follow up.

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