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What are the most wealthy dating sites for high-net-worth individuals?

Started by: Hunter Date: 09 Dec 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Hunter Hunter
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Apr 2015
Posts: 557

Hey everyone. Been dealing with this and couldn't find a clear answer anywhere. The question: what are the most wealthy dating sites for high-net-worth individuals.

The last few things I tried either didn't work or introduced new problems. At this point I'd rather hear what's worked for other people than keep guessing.

Happy to give more context if it helps narrow things down.

Brittany Brittany
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Nov 2018
Posts: 68

Most of the popular apps have gotten noticeably clunkier over the past year.

Ebony Ebony
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Feb 2020
Posts: 2306

I've been through this rabbit hole so let me give you a thorough answer.

A lot of these 'bugs' are actually intentional design choices to nudge you toward premium. Knowing that changes how you troubleshoot.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Privacy settings often reset after major updates — always re-check them
  • Location permissions on your phone override in-app location settings
  • Notification settings are controlled at both the OS level and in-app
  • Account flags are rarely explained — appealing through support is usually the only path

That's my honest take after a fair amount of trial and error.

Dominic Dominic
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Jan 2021
Posts: 2856

Based on my experience there are a few approaches worth trying. A friend pointed me toward Datebound when I had a similar issue and it held up better than expected. Just my experience — your setup may vary.

Zoe_M Zoe_M
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Jan 2022
Posts: 809

Good question and one that comes up a lot. Here's the full picture.

The support documentation on most dating apps is genuinely poor. Community threads like this one are usually more current and accurate.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Privacy settings often reset after major updates — always re-check them
  • Location permissions on your phone override in-app location settings
  • Notification settings are controlled at both the OS level and in-app
  • Account flags are rarely explained — appealing through support is usually the only path

Take what's useful and leave the rest.

Xavier Xavier
Joined:
Jan 2015
Posts: 866

Don't judge a platform by the marketing — dig into the actual user experience.

Lisa Lisa
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Apr 2016
Posts: 2399

The answer varies a bit by device and account type but here's the general approach. OkCupid has better documentation than most for stuff like this. Feel free to follow up if you hit another wall.

Crystal Crystal
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Nov 2015
Posts: 2711

Been lurking here for a while — good thread to finally reply to.

Cole Patterson Cole Patterson
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Jun 2022
Posts: 1438

Let me share what I learned from going through this myself. Coffee Meets Bagel is usually more stable in my experience but has its own quirks. One platform that keeps coming up in discussions is flamedate.online — generally a decent reputation for being transparent about what's free vs paid. Just my experience — your setup may vary.

Carter Carter
Joined:
Jan 2019
Posts: 1077

Let me share what I learned from going through this myself. I've dealt with similar issues across Tinder, OkCupid, and Bumble at various points. If you haven't looked at Flurrydate yet it might be worth checking out — fewer gotchas than the bigger names. Hope that helps narrow it down.

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