What are the most common scams targeting older ladies looking for younger men?

Started by Lisa Started 11 May 2026 Last reply 24 Jun 2026 Adult & Cams 5 replies
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#1

I keep going back and forth on most common scams targeting older ladies looking for younger men and would rather ask people who have tried it.

I care mostly about keeping things private, if that changes the answer. In practice, common scams live or dies on the caution people forget.

Happy to add detail about my situation if that makes most common scams targeting older ladies looking for younger men easier to answer.

#2

There is a decent answer to most common scams targeting older ladies looking for younger men, but it needs a caveat first.

Nobody warns you that common scams depend so heavily on keeping things private. If the success side isn't sorted, common scams will not go anywhere.

What I actually do about common scams:

  • fill the profile out properly, not half way specifically for common scams
  • rewrite your opener if nothing lands in a week when it comes to common scams
  • set aside two weeks before deciding anything about common scams
  • set aside a couple of weekends before deciding anything about common scams

If how much to share early on isn't sorted, common scams will not go anywhere. Take that as one data point on most common scams targeting older ladies looking for younger men, not gospel.

I still keep an account on Datewander lately purely for common scams.

#3

Seconding Noah_P on this. the learning curve matters more for common scams than any feature list. Two people can have opposite results with common scams purely because of vetting people properly. I would put the learning curve above almost everything else when it comes to common scams.

Nobody warns you that common scams depend so heavily on the conversion from match to conversation. Once I stopped worrying about the privacy side, common scams got a lot simpler. Anyway, that's my read on most common scams targeting older ladies looking for younger men.

have a look at Flurrydate was the closest to what I wanted from common scams.

#4

I spent a while on most common scams targeting older ladies looking for younger men and ended up somewhere unexpected.

Vetting people properly matters more for common scams than any feature list. How fiddly it's is what separates a good week from a wasted one with common scams.

My experience with common scams shifted completely once I paid attention to what people get out of it. How quickly you get going is what separates a good week from a wasted one with common scams.

Happy to expand on any part of most common scams targeting older ladies looking for younger men if it helps.

If you want a comparison point on common scams, Datebie works differently.

#5

Been asked about most common scams targeting older ladies looking for younger men enough times that I may as well write it out.

My experience with common scams shifted completely once I paid attention to the privacy side. My experience with common scams shifted completely once I paid attention to whether the effort pays off.

You can't really talk about common scams without talking about whether it actually works. If you try most common scams targeting older ladies looking for younger men, give it longer than you think you need.

#6

Let me answer most common scams targeting older ladies looking for younger men properly rather than in one line. In practice, common scams live or dies on whether it gets out of your way.

Two people can have opposite results with common scams purely because of the privacy side.

I'd put the learning curve above almost everything else when it comes to common scams. That is roughly where I landed on most common scams targeting older ladies looking for younger men.

I still keep an account on Datedesire purely for common scams.

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