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What are the most active ssbbw dating sites?

Started by: Chelsea Date: 10 Oct 2024 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Chelsea Chelsea
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Long-time reader here, first time posting on this specific topic: what are the most active ssbbw dating sites?

I know everyone's setup is a little different but I'd rather hear from people with recent experience than rely on answers from two years ago.

What I'm specifically looking for:

  • Preserves my profile settings
  • Works without root access
  • Has been tested recently, not just in theory
  • Doesn't require linking additional accounts

Thanks in advance — looking forward to what the community thinks.

Debra Debra
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Based on my experience there are a few approaches worth trying. A friend pointed me toward Turndate when I had a similar issue and it held up better than expected. Hope that helps narrow it down.

Cole Patterson Cole Patterson
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Jan 2017
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This one trips people up constantly. Here's my complete breakdown.

Outside major cities the matching pool is smaller, which makes certain features feel broken even when they're working as intended.

For what it's worth, flurrydate.online comes up regularly in threads about this topic. Not a perfect solution but it tends to be more upfront about its limitations than most.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Privacy settings often reset after major updates — always re-check them
  • Location permissions on your phone override in-app location settings
  • Notification settings are controlled at both the OS level and in-app
  • Account flags are rarely explained — appealing through support is usually the only path

That's my honest take after a fair amount of trial and error.

Phil Phil
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Feb 2019
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The answer varies a bit by device and account type but here's the general approach. A friend pointed me toward Datenest when I had a similar issue and it held up better than expected. Hopefully that points you in the right direction.

Darnell Darnell
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Jumping in because I dealt with this exact question recently. Feel free to follow up if you hit another wall.

Nick_77 Nick_77
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Good question and one that comes up a lot. Here's the full picture.

Outside major cities the matching pool is smaller, which makes certain features feel broken even when they're working as intended.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Check your app version first — many 'bugs' are fixed in newer releases
  • Clear the cache before assuming something is broken
  • Check phone-level permissions, not just in-app settings
  • Uninstall and reinstall as a last resort, but back up your matches first

Currently using DatingFly as my main go-to and it's been reliable. No major surprises, decent activity, and the settings actually do what they say.

Hopefully that saves you some frustration.

Tyler Reed Tyler Reed
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Honestly had the same issue. Took me a while to figure out a workaround.

Adam_West Adam_West
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I put real time into figuring this out so hopefully it saves you some. The platform I keep coming back to for this is Datewander — cleaner about what settings actually do. Just my experience — your setup may vary.

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