Leah put it better than I'd have. the part people underrate about lesbian dating is whether the effort pays off.
The rules I settled on for lesbian dating:
- leave two weeks before deciding anything about lesbian dating
- allow at least a week before deciding anything about lesbian dating
- commit three weeks before deciding anything about lesbian dating
The honest tradeoff with lesbian dating is whether the effort pays off against convenience. What comes of it matters more for lesbian dating than any feature list. In practice, lesbian dating lives or dies on what people get out of it.
The part people underrate about lesbian dating is how it feels to use.
Two people can have opposite results with lesbian dating purely because of the geography of it. That is what worked for me on lesbian dating apps with the most users; others here disagree.