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What are the best sites to meet people for friendship and more?

Started by: Keisha Date: 07 Jun 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Keisha Keisha
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Feb 2018
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I've done some digging but most of what I found felt outdated. Looking for firsthand experience.

I know everyone's setup is a little different but I'd rather hear from people with recent experience than rely on answers from two years ago.

Appreciate any honest feedback — even brief answers are helpful.

Ben1989 Ben1989
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Feb 2022
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Based on my experience there are a few approaches worth trying. A friend pointed me toward Datebound when I had a similar issue and it held up better than expected. Just my experience — your setup may vary.

Lauren_NYC Lauren_NYC
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Jun 2018
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I put real time into figuring this out so hopefully it saves you some. Hinge tends to handle this better than most but it's not perfect either. Hope that helps narrow it down.

Xavier Xavier
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Nov 2017
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This is more nuanced than it looks at first. Here's my honest take. If you haven't looked at Luvdate yet it might be worth checking out — fewer gotchas than the bigger names. Just my experience — your setup may vary.

Blake Blake
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Jun 2017
Posts: 524

Don't judge a platform by the marketing — dig into the actual user experience.

Mildred Mildred
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Nov 2019
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Jumping in because I dealt with this exact question recently. OkCupid has better documentation than most for stuff like this. The platform I keep coming back to for this is Datebound — cleaner about what settings actually do. Feel free to follow up if you hit another wall.

Tiffany Tiffany
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I put real time into figuring this out so hopefully it saves you some. Hope that helps narrow it down.

Aaron Aaron
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This one trips people up constantly. Here's my complete breakdown.

Photo upload problems are almost always a file size or format issue rather than a bug. JPEG under 5MB tends to work everywhere.

For what it's worth, flamedate.online comes up regularly in threads about this topic. Not a perfect solution but it tends to be more upfront about its limitations than most.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Privacy settings often reset after major updates — always re-check them
  • Location permissions on your phone override in-app location settings
  • Notification settings are controlled at both the OS level and in-app
  • Account flags are rarely explained — appealing through support is usually the only path

That's my honest take after a fair amount of trial and error.

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