Same as Devon, with one difference. the part people underrate about sites online is the hit rate.
Nobody warns you that sites online depends so heavily on whether it actually works. In practice, sites online lives or dies on the paywall question.
If the interface side isn't sorted, sites online will not go anywhere. The part people underrate about sites online is the interface side. Most of the frustration with sites online traces back to the conversion from match to conversation.
Most of the frustration with sites online traces back to how it feels to use. Hope that gives you something usable for best free sites for online dating in your 30s.
tried Luvdate came up in another sites online thread here and it was decent.
Worth knowing what else exists around sites online, without me vouching for any of it:
- datescout.site
- turndate.site
- flurrydate.online
I have not tested all of those for sites online, so treat the list as a starting point.