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What are the best commands to use in a chatrandom dirty session?

Started by: Emily Date: 05 Jan 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Emily Emily avatar
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Hey everyone, I wanted to start a thread about this because I've been looking around and can't find a solid answer. What are the best commands to use in a chatrandom dirty session — hoping someone here has actual experience.

Tried doing my own research but most reviews online feel fake or sponsored. Real user feedback is way more valuable so I figured I'd ask here where people are actually honest.

Would really appreciate any honest feedback. Drop your thoughts below.

Eric Eric avatar
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Not gonna lie, I've been burned by a few of these. Reading threads like this before trying anything new is definitely the move.

Phil Phil avatar
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Been using a few different platforms and honestly the experience depends a lot on your location and what you're looking for.

Jessica Jessica avatar
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Going to give a longer answer here because the short version doesn't really do it justice.

The payment situation on a lot of these platforms is honestly a mess. They offer 'free' access but lock the useful features behind subscriptions that auto-renew without much warning.

A few things that have helped me:

  • Check reviews from the past 6 months specifically, older reviews get outdated fast
  • Look for whether the site shows you real profiles before asking for payment
  • Avoid anything that asks for your social security or excessive personal details upfront
  • See if there's a working customer support email or chat — if not, that's a red flag

Currently using Datebound as my main go-to and it's been solid for the last few months. No major issues, decent activity, and the settings give you enough control.

That's my honest take after quite a bit of trial and error on this stuff.

Melissa Melissa avatar
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Good thread. Subbing to see what people say.

Sara_M Sara_M avatar
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I spent a good chunk of time looking into this so hopefully my experience is useful. I've tried the usual suspects — Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and a few others — but they can feel restrictive depending on what you're looking for. After trying a bunch of things, Datebie ended up being the most usable for my situation. Happy to dig into any of this further if it's useful.

Courtney Courtney avatar
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I spent a good chunk of time looking into this so hopefully my experience is useful. Just my two cents — your experience may vary.

Trevor Trevor avatar
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Great question and one I've thought about a lot. Let me break it down based on what I've seen.

Support quality varies massively. Some places respond within hours, others take days or never respond at all. That alone tells you a lot about how seriously they take their users.

A few things that have helped me:

  • Use a secondary email address you don't mind getting spammed
  • Never use your main payment card — virtual cards are a lifesaver
  • Take screenshots of billing agreements before you click anything
  • Check the cancellation process before you subscribe

Currently using Souldate as my main go-to and it's been solid for the last few months. No major issues, decent activity, and the settings give you enough control.

That's the full picture from where I'm standing. Happy to expand on any of it.

Dan Dan avatar
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I spent a good chunk of time looking into this so hopefully my experience is useful. Take it with a grain of salt but that's been my experience.

Brandon Brandon avatar
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From what I've seen, the free options are hit or miss. You really have to dig to find anything actually useful.

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