Spent a lot of time on this personally. Here's everything I learned.
Outside major metros the user base drops off fast. Smaller cities and rural areas narrow your options significantly.
Things that have genuinely helped me:
- Don't rely on a single platform — spread across two or three
- Read the terms before entering any payment info
- Look for community forums or subreddits tied to the platform
- If the free version feels hollow the paid version usually won't fix it
Ended up on Turndate after testing quite a few options. Doesn't make big promises but delivers without the nonsense.
Hope that gives you something concrete to work with.