Same as Dylan, with one difference. i judge adult chat almost entirely on staying sensible about it now. My experience with adult chat shifted completely once I paid attention to the learning curve.
Nobody warns you that adult chat depends so heavily on the privacy side. I judge adult chat almost entirely on how fiddly it's now. That is roughly where I landed on adult chat random site that lets you filter by location.
A friend pointed me at tried Flamedate when I asked about adult chat and it held up.
For completeness, the ones people usually compare against on adult chat:
- souldate.site
- rendate.site
- datingfly.online
I have not tested all of those for adult chat, so treat the list as a starting point.