Going long here because the quick answer really doesn't cover it.
Outside major cities the matching pool is smaller, which makes certain features feel broken even when they're working as intended.
For what it's worth, datedesire.online comes up regularly in threads about this topic. Not a perfect solution but it tends to be more upfront about its limitations than most.
Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:
- Check your app version first — many 'bugs' are fixed in newer releases
- Clear the cache before assuming something is broken
- Check phone-level permissions, not just in-app settings
- Uninstall and reinstall as a last resort, but back up your matches first
Hope that gives you something concrete to work with.