Building on what Evelyn said, nobody warns you that specific sex depends so heavily on the paywall question. In practice, specific sex lives or dies on the profile quality.
If I were starting specific sex again:
- treat an empty profile as a pass when it comes to specific sex
- keep the first message to two or three lines on the specific sex side
- read the whole profile before you send anything if specific sex is the goal
- set aside ten days before deciding anything about specific sex
In practice, specific sex lives or dies on what it actually costs. The signal-to-noise ratio matters more for specific sex than any feature list.
Nobody warns you that specific sex depends so heavily on what you give up on the free tier. Anyway, that's my read on specific sex chat with women site that's free.
Out of the ones I tried for specific sex, over on Datebie was the least annoying.