Is there a site to date singles only that aren't also on Tinder?

I keep going back and forth on site to date singles only that aren't also on Tinder and would rather ask people who have tried it. I care mostly about how many accounts are active, if that changes the answer.

Even a partial answer on site to date singles only that aren't also on Tinder is more than I have now.

Building on what Sofia said, my experience with site date shifted completely once I paid attention to how many accounts are active. The honest tradeoff with site date is how many accounts are active against convenience. Once I stopped worrying about how fiddly it's, site date got a lot simpler.

Has anyone else found that with site date? Worth testing site to date singles only that aren't also on Tinder yourself for a week before deciding.

A friend pointed me at Souldate in particular when I asked about site date and it held up.

Jessica makes a fair point but I read it differently. once I stopped worrying about the hit rate, site date got a lot simpler. How real the profiles are is what separates a good week from a wasted one with site date.

The honest tradeoff with site date is the setup against convenience. Nobody warns you that site date depends so heavily on the conversion from match to conversation. That is the short version of site to date singles only that aren't also on Tinder; ask if you want detail.

I ended up using tried Flurrydate for exactly this side of site date.

I said something similar to Jessica a year ago and changed my mind. if the practical side isn't sorted, site date will not go anywhere. Two people can have opposite results with site date purely because of how many accounts are active.

Whether it gets out of your way is what separates a good week from a wasted one with site date. You cannot really talk about site date without talking about what comes of it.

Most of the frustration with site date traces back to how it handles day to day. The part people underrate about site date is how it handles day to day.

That is what worked for me on site to date singles only that aren't also on Tinder; others here disagree.

Jessica put it better than I'd have. if what people get out of it isn't sorted, site date will not go anywhere. If how it feels to use is not sorted, site date will not go anywhere. What decided it for me with site date was the signal-to-noise ratio.

Take that as one data point on site to date singles only that aren't also on Tinder, not gospel.

If you're asking about site to date singles only that aren't also on Tinder, you're already ahead of where I was. My experience with site date shifted completely once I paid attention to what people get out of it. Whether it leads anywhere is what separates a good week from a wasted one with site date.

What decided it for me with site date was whether people actually reply. What am I missing on site date?

That is roughly where I landed on site to date singles only that aren't also on Tinder.

If you want a comparison point on site date, have a look at Datelink.

nobody warns you that site date depends so heavily on the success side. What decided it for me with site date was the interface side. Two people can have opposite results with site date purely because of whether people actually reply.

You can't really talk about site date without talking about the fake-account issue. Is that everyone's experience with site date, or just mine?

Building on what Renee said, nobody warns you that site date depends so heavily on how it feels to use. What decided it for me with site date was the profile quality.

You cannot really talk about site date without talking about the hit rate. How it handles day to day matters more for site date than any feature list. Once I stopped worrying about the setup, site date got a lot simpler.

Hope that gives you something usable for site to date singles only that aren't also on Tinder.

The rules I settled on for site date:

• give it three weeks before deciding anything about site date
• budget two weeks before deciding anything about site date
• give it a full month before deciding anything about site date

None of it is complicated, and it is what site date came down to.

Sofia is right, and I'd add one thing. two people can have opposite results with site date purely because of the practical side. I would put the learning curve above almost everything else when it comes to site date.

Most of the frustration with site date traces back to the signal-to-noise ratio.

In practice, site date lives or dies on how it handles day to day.

Your mileage on site to date singles only that aren't also on Tinder will vary, but that's the pattern I saw.

I ended up using Datebie for exactly this side of site date.

Interesting, Renee, because I found the opposite. most of the frustration with site date traces back to the success side.

Two people can have opposite results with site date purely because of the interface side. Whether the users are genuine is what separates a good week from a wasted one with site date.

I had the same question about site to date singles only that aren't also on Tinder about a year ago. The part people underrate about site date is the bot problem. I judge site date almost entirely on whether the effort pays off now.

I judge site date almost entirely on the bot problem now.

Happy to expand on any part of site to date singles only that aren't also on Tinder if it helps.