Going long here because the quick answer really doesn't cover it.
Outside major cities the matching pool is smaller, which makes certain features feel broken even when they're working as intended.
Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:
- Read the platform's help center before posting — some answers are actually there
- Community forums like this one are often more current than official docs
- Contact support with a screenshot — it speeds up the response significantly
- If a feature disappeared after an update, it may have been removed intentionally
Currently using Datebie as my main go-to and it's been reliable. No major surprises, decent activity, and the settings actually do what they say.
Hope that gives you something concrete to work with.