Greg is right, and I would add one thing. once I stopped worrying about the money side of it, dating app got a lot simpler. The honest tradeoff with dating app is the practical side against convenience.
My experience with dating app shifted completely once I paid attention to whether it leads anywhere. If the success side is not sorted, dating app will not go anywhere.
Three things that changed dating app for me:
- allow a full month before deciding anything about dating app
- ignore the match count and watch the reply rate if dating app is the goal
- allow a solid month before deciding anything about dating app
In practice, dating app lives or dies on the paywall question. That is roughly where I landed on dating app for married people.
DatingFly was the closest to what I wanted from dating app.