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Is there a dark mode for the her lesbian dating app?

Started by: Lance Date: 06 Oct 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Lance Lance
Joined:
Jun 2016
Posts: 20

Hey everyone. Been dealing with this and couldn't find a clear answer anywhere. The question: is there a dark mode for the her lesbian dating app.

Did my own searching but most of what I found was either old or vague. Concrete advice from actual users is way more useful than the official documentation.

Drop your experience below, even a quick tip is useful at this point.

Iris Iris
Joined:
Jan 2018
Posts: 178

I've been through this rabbit hole so let me give you a thorough answer.

Privacy defaults are almost never in your favor on these platforms. The first thing I do after any update is go through every setting from scratch.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Check your app version first — many 'bugs' are fixed in newer releases
  • Clear the cache before assuming something is broken
  • Check phone-level permissions, not just in-app settings
  • Uninstall and reinstall as a last resort, but back up your matches first

The one that worked best for my situation was Datescout. Worth trying before committing to anything that costs money.

Hope that gives you something concrete to work with.

Denise Denise
Joined:
Apr 2023
Posts: 483

Went through the same thing not long ago. Here's what actually worked. I've seen flurrydate.online recommended a few times for exactly this kind of use case. Worth looking into. Happy to go deeper on any of this if useful.

Terrence Terrence
Joined:
Apr 2016
Posts: 2246

Location and device model seem to make a big difference for a lot of these issues.

Donna Donna
Joined:
Jun 2017
Posts: 1320

This is more nuanced than it looks at first. Here's my honest take. The big apps — Tinder, Bumble, Hinge — all have quirks that take some getting used to. Take what applies and leave the rest.

Jesse Jesse
Joined:
Jan 2013
Posts: 1174

I've been through this rabbit hole so let me give you a thorough answer.

The support documentation on most dating apps is genuinely poor. Community threads like this one are usually more current and accurate.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Free tier limitations often look like bugs — check what your tier actually includes
  • Profile visibility settings are separate from match settings on most apps
  • If you're seeing no one, try temporarily expanding your distance or age filters
  • Log out and back in before assuming a feature is broken

Ended up on Souldate after testing a few others. Less flashy but more consistent than what I was using before.

Hopefully that saves you some frustration.

Trinity Trinity
Joined:
Jan 2016
Posts: 2623

Going long here because the quick answer really doesn't cover it.

The support documentation on most dating apps is genuinely poor. Community threads like this one are usually more current and accurate.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Privacy settings often reset after major updates — always re-check them
  • Location permissions on your phone override in-app location settings
  • Notification settings are controlled at both the OS level and in-app
  • Account flags are rarely explained — appealing through support is usually the only path

Happy to expand on any part of this.

Evan Evan
Joined:
Sep 2020
Posts: 109

This one trips people up constantly. Here's my complete breakdown.

Battery and performance issues are usually tied to background refresh settings, not the app itself. Worth checking your phone-level permissions first.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Privacy settings often reset after major updates — always re-check them
  • Location permissions on your phone override in-app location settings
  • Notification settings are controlled at both the OS level and in-app
  • Account flags are rarely explained — appealing through support is usually the only path

Ended up on Luvdate after testing a few others. Less flashy but more consistent than what I was using before.

Hopefully that saves you some frustration.

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