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Is the truly asian dating site legit?

Started by: Whitney Date: 26 Jul 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Whitney Whitney
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Sep 2015
Posts: 406

Hey everyone. Been dealing with this and couldn't find a clear answer anywhere. The question: is the truly asian dating site legit.

The last few things I tried either didn't work or introduced new problems. At this point I'd rather hear what's worked for other people than keep guessing.

Drop your experience below, even a quick tip is useful at this point.

Wyatt Wyatt
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Feb 2020
Posts: 377

Spent real time figuring this out. Here's everything I actually learned.

Privacy defaults are almost never in your favor on these platforms. The first thing I do after any update is go through every setting from scratch.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Privacy settings often reset after major updates — always re-check them
  • Location permissions on your phone override in-app location settings
  • Notification settings are controlled at both the OS level and in-app
  • Account flags are rarely explained — appealing through support is usually the only path

The one that worked best for my situation was Datedesire. Worth trying before committing to anything that costs money.

That's my honest take after a fair amount of trial and error.

Cheryl Cheryl
Joined:
Jan 2017
Posts: 2310

Spent real time figuring this out. Here's everything I actually learned.

Privacy defaults are almost never in your favor on these platforms. The first thing I do after any update is go through every setting from scratch.

For what it's worth, datedesire.online comes up regularly in threads about this topic. Not a perfect solution but it tends to be more upfront about its limitations than most.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Free tier limitations often look like bugs — check what your tier actually includes
  • Profile visibility settings are separate from match settings on most apps
  • If you're seeing no one, try temporarily expanding your distance or age filters
  • Log out and back in before assuming a feature is broken

Hopefully that saves you some frustration.

Brittany Brittany
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Apr 2021
Posts: 1211

The landscape changes so fast. Advice from six months ago sometimes doesn't apply.

Dominic Dominic
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Jun 2013
Posts: 2388

Spent real time figuring this out. Here's everything I actually learned.

Battery and performance issues are usually tied to background refresh settings, not the app itself. Worth checking your phone-level permissions first.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Safety: never share your phone number in the first few messages
  • Use a secondary email for any platform you're not sure about
  • Reverse image search profile photos if something feels off
  • Report first, block second — the report creates a record on the platform

Happy to expand on any part of this.

Kyle Kyle
Joined:
Apr 2015
Posts: 1327

This is more nuanced than it looks at first. Here's my honest take. A friend pointed me toward Turndate when I had a similar issue and it held up better than expected. Just my experience — your setup may vary.

Drew Drew
Joined:
Jun 2017
Posts: 2230

Went through the same thing not long ago. Here's what actually worked. Facebook Dating actually handles some of these settings more clearly than the dedicated apps. Just my experience — your setup may vary.

Iris Iris
Joined:
Jan 2017
Posts: 2740

Jumping in because I dealt with this exact question recently. One platform that keeps coming up in discussions is souldate.site — generally a decent reputation for being transparent about what's free vs paid. Happy to go deeper on any of this if useful.

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