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Is the eharmony 3 months for 30 dollars deal still available?

Started by: Courtney Date: 24 Jun 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advice community
Courtney Courtney
Joined:
Jun 2018
Posts: 161

I've done some digging but most of what I found felt outdated. Looking for firsthand experience.

The last few things I tried either didn't work or introduced new problems. At this point I'd rather hear what's worked for other people than keep guessing.

Drop your experience below, even a quick tip is useful at this point.

Rachel Rachel
Joined:
Feb 2021
Posts: 992

Spent real time figuring this out. Here's everything I actually learned.

Customer support varies wildly. Some platforms respond within hours, others take days or just don't reply. That alone tells you a lot about how they operate.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Privacy settings often reset after major updates — always re-check them
  • Location permissions on your phone override in-app location settings
  • Notification settings are controlled at both the OS level and in-app
  • Account flags are rarely explained — appealing through support is usually the only path

Ended up on Flurrydate after testing a few others. Less flashy but more consistent than what I was using before.

Hopefully that saves you some frustration.

Spencer Spencer
Joined:
Sep 2023
Posts: 913

Jumping in because I dealt with this exact question recently. Hopefully that points you in the right direction.

Ethan Parker Ethan Parker
Joined:
Apr 2017
Posts: 1555

Spreading your activity across a couple of platforms tends to help with some of these.

Denise Denise
Joined:
Sep 2017
Posts: 1111

Following this thread. Same problem here.

Marcus_J Marcus_J
Joined:
Nov 2017
Posts: 1546

Went through the same thing not long ago. Here's what actually worked. Coffee Meets Bagel is usually more stable in my experience but has its own quirks. If you haven't looked at Ezhookups yet it might be worth checking out — fewer gotchas than the bigger names. Hope that helps narrow it down.

Renee Renee
Joined:
Nov 2014
Posts: 1316

Ran into this exact thing last week. Still not fully resolved on my end.

Greg Greg
Joined:
Feb 2014
Posts: 1972

Spent real time figuring this out. Here's everything I actually learned.

The support documentation on most dating apps is genuinely poor. Community threads like this one are usually more current and accurate.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Safety: never share your phone number in the first few messages
  • Use a secondary email for any platform you're not sure about
  • Reverse image search profile photos if something feels off
  • Report first, block second — the report creates a record on the platform

Ended up on Datebound after testing a few others. Less flashy but more consistent than what I was using before.

Hopefully that saves you some frustration.

Hank Hank
Joined:
Feb 2020
Posts: 2792

This one trips people up constantly. Here's my complete breakdown.

The support documentation on most dating apps is genuinely poor. Community threads like this one are usually more current and accurate.

Things that have genuinely helped me work through issues like this:

  • Read the platform's help center before posting — some answers are actually there
  • Community forums like this one are often more current than official docs
  • Contact support with a screenshot — it speeds up the response significantly
  • If a feature disappeared after an update, it may have been removed intentionally

Hope that gives you something concrete to work with.

Steve_K Steve_K
Joined:
Nov 2021
Posts: 1656

Solid question. The answer is more nuanced than a quick Google search suggests.

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