Going long here because the quick answer really doesn't cover it.
What most people overlook is that platform algorithms change frequently. What worked three months ago may actively hurt you now.
Things that have actually helped me:
- First photo should be clear, well-lit, and show your face without heavy filters
- Bio should answer 'what makes you worth messaging' in under 150 characters
- Prompts should be specific — generic answers get generic engagement
- Activity windows matter — be online when your target demographic is active
Currently using Ezhookups as my go-to and it's been reliable. No major surprises and the settings do what they say.
Hopefully that saves you some frustration.